Asset #1 is Family Support — Family life provides high levels of love and support

During these busy next few days of travel, food, and family; it is important to remember that the #1 asset is Family Support—Kids feel love and supported in their family.

Below are just a few things that can be done in this busy holiday season to show the kids in your family you support them. These suggestions are from the book What kids need to succeed.

• Give more hugs and verbal reinforcement. Don’t assume that you kids know how much you love them. Tell them.

• Let your love for your children show in the way you look at them, the words you say, your tone of voice, and your body language.

• It’s not true that all kids want their parents to stop hugging or kissing them once they become teenagers. Ask your children to tell you what feels comfortable for them, and respect their boundaries. This is important as your children get older.

• Eat at least one meal together every day. I have also heard the suggestion to have the children help plan and make the meals. There is great learning and teaching moments in all things that we do everyday.

• Set aside at least one evening per week for family activities. Brainstorm as a family things you might like to do, then agree on which ones to try. Be open to ideas from all family members, and willing to share your children’s interest. I know that Asset Champion Chris Barton, does this with her family. She even says that the idea of family game night is spreading through her neighborhood.

• Spend time with each of your children individually. If Jon and Kate Gosselin can do this with their 8 kids, you can do it too!!! I challenge you to do this everyday by blocking out time in the morning or at night. Make sure to share your ideas with others by posting a comment on the blog.

• Talk with your kids about what would make your home more comfortable and inviting for them and their friends.

• BE YOUR CHILD'S BIGGEST FAN!!!!!!!!

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